Sunday, February 10, 2008

A Smile....

There's so much that it can say. We pass on this and it becomes an addiction. Doctor's say it's good to smile and it takes less muscles to smile than to frown but have we ever thought over the psychological effect a smile has????? Truely speaking, no one would have had this thought as it never makes us think as to why someone smiles at us?? Have u ever thought?? No , right??

Well i think... and as i was in my process of ransacking my brain i felt like writing this...... I was in my class i when realized..... i saw a TRA entering into our class for a substituition and she gave us a smile as soon as she came in . We didn't shout or trouble her saying," Ma'am please leave us free.... or make a hue or cry..". She took attendance and she left us..There was a smile in all our faces and we said," Thank u Ma'am"before leaving. Same thing happenes when our Bio Physics sir scolds anyone. He smiles and the effect reduces no matter however rude it is..

If we smile it passes on a positive vibe.... No body can comment saying," You don't look good when u smile."
As all look good when they smile but one can very well say," You don't look good when u frown."

'Smile.... It increases your face value'... a well known quote seen everywhere but do we realize it??

We realize it only when someone tells us and we smile all the more. It works a lot at times. If we smile, at a worker his burden is lessend by half and there's nothing less we get, than a smile. It can be can be categorized into a sweet, pleasant, rejuveniating, jovial, lovely, satisfying, notorious or be it anything............ it's a smile............. ad categorize it anyway it remains the same...

I have faced this a lot of times and I have learnt a lot from people this way. Basically, if people smile at me I feel they can do the minimum possible thing. That's the best way to make someone feel comfortable. When I go out anywhere i feel that i don't even know someone in the crowd but if those unknown people pass on a pleasant smile then it gives a wonderful feeling.

I can talk about a small instance which happened with me a few days ago. I was entering my mess hurriedly and as I was very hungry. The lunch in the afternoon wasn't so good so I was all the more upset seeing the food. Still, there was no other go so I had to go with whatever was there. I made a face and I continued. The mess worker whom we call 'akka' here saw my sad face and she came hurrying from the corner and served me rice and dal. It was nothing to be surprised about but she simply asked with a smile," U don't look happy today, not liking the food?"
It was not only her words but it was the smile.....
Seeing that I lost all my frustration. I just said," It's okay akka. I'll have it today."
I had my lunch properly after that though I had only rice and dal. The day went well and I felt everything was looking all the more good. It was just a smile that made a difference.

This is one such instance . There are many which happen everyday not only with me but with everyone.
That's why it's rightly said," Smile: It costs you nothing."

1 comment:

Rajesh kumar.R said...

Hi Archana I have read your post A Smile..Its really nice I didnt gone vth other posts I will surely read next time.